German_Mike's Forum Posts

That's right. Some parents forbid their daughters to be involved with a foreigner. Yet some are silly enough to see the foreigner as the irresistible temptation, or the dangerous fruit.

Even, if they're already married or in a serious relationship, u might still find them looking for something quick and casual at Jellyfish just for fun!

But in hindsight, it makes me wonder, how many of the regulars now have some kind of STD?

The bars you'll meet people who you'll never remember again. The nature of alcohol.

Try getting involved with sports? Rugby? Soccer? There are teams.

Or bookworm - not as drunken as the other bars/pubs.

It's late and tastes good. The mushroom one is very tasty.

Watsons sells it.

All the "condom shops" sell it (about 20 RMB for small tubes). But there might be some stigma entering.

Just ask to buy "Zuo Ai You" and they'll offer a selection.

Carrefour should sell it. They did before.

A lot of Chinese also want access to Facebook and YouTube. All the young kids do.

Don't be afraid, everyone does it.

There are a few bars, full of Chinese ladies of all ages looking for foreign men. In many instances they are not fussy, just being foreign is enough. 

I believe the main bars for this are: Panam, Jellyfish and Shamrock. They all seem to speak English in these places, some can speak a few lines of German too.

The expensive bars in JiuYanQiao also have some of these girls, but they're more "open" to anything - especially money. Some are "working". And you will need Mandarin here.

For casual incidents, Jellyfish is probably the easiest, however for a reason. A few of them sleep around with the regulars (within minutes of meeting you). Unfortunately, one time I caught something (herpes, even using a condom) and it's here to stay (no treatment). So, the casual side may be fun, but there are drawbacks.

So, there are all kinds of girls in China. There probably are some who will not date foreigners, but I usually meet the ones who exclusively chase foreigners. They all have various long and detailed reasons, some are simply crazy, some intelligent and thoughtful.

If you speak Mandarin, the variety grows. And Mandarin is fine for younger generations.

Good luck but be careful!